HOW TO TALK ABOUT POLITICS

In my lifetime our country and indeed much of the western world has not been as polarized over partisan politics.  Even the tumultuous 1960s and 70s, when Vietnam, civil rights and the Nixon impeachment divided the country, did not appear as divisive as today’s social media fueled political atmosphere.  With the prospect of a presidential impeachment inquiry and a national election on the horizon, getting along with those with differing political views is bound to get worse. To counter this tendency I will describe some of my experiences and offer ideas on how to talk about politics.  

  

I am not suggesting that those who care about our political system should stop participating in the debate. As concerned citizens, it is our civic responsibility to speak out against policies that threaten the political, social, economic and ethical positions we believe in.  But political discourse can be accomplished in a fashion that seeks to build consensus rather than to tear down, that is open to other opinions and considerate of other points of view. 

Making fun of or degrading political leaders and their followers from the opposing party has become a fool’s errand for both Democrats and Republicans.  It can only result in emotional responses and increased hostility.  I have decided to leave this task to the late night comedians, political cartoonists, and the cable news talking heads.

My goal when I make a point, post on social media or comment in public will be to focus on the positive.  Quotes by or about Elijah Cummings, Maya Angelou, Martin Luther King Jr. and political philosophers often get at the position I want to emphasize in a positive manner.  In my experience, providing a thought that highlights the optimistic “what could be” rather than the negative of “what is wrong” has greater impact in getting others to consider an opinion.

When I speak with Republicans about politics, I now try to differentiate between “Party Republicans” and “Trump Republicans.” Rather than criticize Republican views on conservative and/or religious principles, I first seek to determine whether my opponent would give up Trump for another conservative political leader if all policy results were the same (abortion, Supreme Court appointments, tax cuts, regulations, etc.). I have found that separating Trump with his destructive tweets and dangerous precedents for running the presidency from policy positions opens up avenues for constructive discussion on important issues. Moreover, I believe that many Party Republicans are not Trump Republicans and that this fact will ultimately determine the President’s political fate.

I will continue to respond to posts and articles that are factually wrong or misplaced.  Recently a conservative family member re-posted an NPR piece on young people in Sweden implanting a financial chip into their arm. He turned the article into an anti-socialism rant when the reporting was simply pointing out Sweden’s move to a cashless society. I pointed out his mistake and we had a constructive on-line discussion.

One of my favorite columnists is Tim Hartford, aka the undercover economist, who writes for the Financial Times. In a recent column (10/12/19), he laments the effects of Brexit on British society.  He makes the excellent point that: “It’s tempting to obsess about the tone of politics, but that is a trap.  If we spend our time wringing our hands over the form of the political conversation, it leaves little space to think about the content.”

Mr. Hartford offers three ideas on how to talk about politics that I find refreshing.  First, when faced with someone whose politics you dislike, engage on what can be done to solve an issue that both agree requires resolution.  

Refrain from sinking into a food fight on which politician is the most despicable.

Second, stop scorning others who you believe to be under-informed.  Most of us know less about complex issues than we think we do. Just because one reads the Economist or Foreign Affairs does not mean that the individual understands the history and solutions for immigration at the southern border or the interests of the multitude of factions involved in northern Syria.  Unless one is a constitutional scholar, it is difficult to grasp the nuances of the emoluments clause, the limits of presidential power or impeachment.  All are complicated.  Most people who are willing to engage on such topics have something to point out worth considering.

Third, people on the other side of the debate, like all of us, want the best for their family and the country. Living in a society where one-half the citizens are considered either ignorant or wicked or both may provide fertile ground for certain politicians but is barren ground for the rest of us.  

We can do better.  If nothing else, hug the uncle who exasperates you.

A TRIP TO THE MIDDLE OF ITALY

The Italian economy and social structure is similar to a many layered cake.  At the top in the north is the thick butter cream icing.  Much of the industrial and financial wealth is concentrated here and life is good.  At the bottom of the Italian boot is a thick crusty base where poverty and unemployment are high. The governmental infrastructure flourishing in the north is difficult to find in Southern Italy.  Not surprisingly, many of the Italian families who immigrated to Western Pennsylvania in the late 19^th and early 20^th centuries can trace their heritage back to Calabria in the southern portion of Italy.

 In early October, my wife and I traveled with a group of local attorneys and other interested parties to the center of the Italian layer cake.  We spent three full days in Sorrento on the western coast below Naples; three days in beautiful Florence and three days in Rome. Each area was distinctive and held its special charms.

Sorrento is the gateway to the Italian Mediterranean playground. Beaches, yachts and sunburned tourists are the order of the day. Our hotel in Sorrento looked out onto the Bay of Naples with Mount Vesuvius and Pompeii, off in the distance.  Both the Amalfi coastline and the Island of Capri are within easy reach. The breathtaking ride to Amalfi along the switchback costal road reminded me of the Big Sur portion of Highway One in California. Local ceramics, seafood restaurants and expensive hotels built into the bluffs over the Mediterranean are what make this area so desirable.

A short hydrofoil boat ride transports tourists to Capri. The Island has always been known for its limoncello liqueur and lemon perfumes. More recently Capri has become the destination of the rich and famous from around the world. Every upscale designer and boutique is represented along the narrow winding streets. A ski lift takes tourists to the top of the Island to view the panorama of olive groves and sea below.

The next leg of our journey took us north to Florence via high-speed train from Naples. The view from our window changed to rolling hills filled with vineyards, ancient towers and Tuscan villages. We spent the afternoon on a walking tour of old Florence, which included Michelangelo’s David, the Duomo and the Baptistery with its famous bronze doors.

For shoppers, among the attractions in Florence are leather goods, truffles and finely crafted gold and silver jewelry.  For lovers of Renaissance history and art, Florence is ground zero. The Medici family made their money in banking, not considered an acceptable vocation by the local nobility. Cosimo de Medici, “father of the fatherland”, and his prodigy responded by using their vast wealth to rebuild Florence into a showcase, utilizing the talents of Italy’s greatest creative minds.  The buildings, houses of worship, sculptures, and paintings make Florence, in my humble opinion, the most beautiful city in the world.

The next day, under the bright Tuscan sun, we spent the morning in the towering walled, hill town of San Gimigano.  The trek up the steep hill to the town square was rewarded with incredible vistas of Tuscany, cottage linen shops and what is regarded as the best gelato in Italy.

The afternoon was a true adventure at the Tenuta Torciano Winery in the Tuscan countryside. This 15^th generation family business has over a thousand acres under cultivation. The grapes are planted under different soil conditions that produce several world class varieties of wine.  We were heartily welcomed by the owner and invited to participate in a truffle hunt; vespa scooter rides through the vineyards; and a cooking class. The evening festivities featured a six-course dinner with wine tasting.  Many in our group ordered wine, olive oils and a 30 year old balsamic, all sent home in time for the holidays. 

On our last day in Florence the group was free to explore the museums and shopping. My wife and I had been to Florence several years ago and missed the Palatine Gallery and Gardens at the Pitti Palace, the residence of the Medici family. We trekked across the Ponte Vecchio covered bridge that crosses the Arno river, shopping and eating along the way.  The Pitti Palace was not as crowded as other attractions and was well worth our effort.  At sunset we returned to our hotel with spectacular photo ops along the way. As we packed for Rome, an opera singer serenaded us from the courtyard below.

Another high-speed train delivered our group south to Rome for our final destination. There was no evidence that the tourist season was winding down, with large crowds at every attraction. Not even an early morning arrival at the Vatican could escape the throngs lined up for the Vatican museums, Sistine Capel and St. Peter’s Basilica. The Trevi Fountain was surrounded by thousands of spectators, as were the Spanish steps.

Our last day was a free one and our destination was the Capitoline Museums on the Roman Hill with the same name.  Again, we were in luck as all the tourists appeared to be braving the hot sun and were wandering outside through the Forum and Palatine Hill. A special exhibit highlighting the life and paintings of Luca Signorelli held our interest along with some of the more important archeological discoveries found in Rome and the surrounding area.  Other members of our group ventured to the Borghese Gallery and Museum or to the Coliseum.  

While all of Italy is a tourist mecca, the center layers of this amazing country offer a great deal to see and do. My summary of the trip has skipped the long luxurious suppers, which are a story in themselves.  One day we will return to tour the north and take in Venice, Lake Como and Milan. In addition, we will plan a future trip to Calabria in the south to find my wife’s ancestral roots.