“Everybody's joining up to fight
For the right to be wrong
I need some
Sentimental hygiene” Warren Zevon
For the right to be wrong
I need some
Sentimental hygiene” Warren Zevon
The subject of tolerance in a mature democratic republic such
as the United States would appear to require little thought or discussion. One would assume that tolerance of others is
a positive notion that always signifies good character and is an enlightened,
liberal goal, above reproach.
In fact, the history of tolerance in political theory and
philosophical circles reveals that the concept of tolerance is complicated and
is often exercised without any compassion or even true acceptance of others.
Since the time of the classical philosophers there have been two opposing
schools of thought. On the one hand are those who believe tolerance is a
positive force that can be used to strengthen diverse societies. On the other is the belief that tolerance is
nothing more than another tool of the majority to keep well-meaning minorities
in their place.
I have concluded that
as tolerance is utilized in practice today, it is often anything but a
virtue. On the bright side,
understanding tolerance as it relates to “the others”, with whom we are in
conflict, can provide a roadmap to help us understand the difficult social,
political and moral issues with which we struggle. The key is to recognize the difference
between intolerance, permissive tolerance and respectful tolerance.
In order to understand tolerance, it is important to
recognize that majorities cannot come to tolerate
a racial group, a religion, a sexual orientation, gender roles or any other
minority without first having an objection
to the particular group the majority decides to tolerate. Most often, the gift
of tolerance from the majority to the minority comes at a price and with
rules. This has been defined as permissive
tolerance.
Consider the following examples of permissive tolerance from
American and European history. Jews will
be tolerated but must live in ghettoes and pay special taxes. African Americans will be tolerated as long
as they live in red lined districts, accept impediments to voting and racial
profiling. Non heterosexuals will be
tolerated under “don’t ask, don’t tell” policies or as long as they do not seek
marriage status. Women in the work place
will be tolerated as long as they accept lower wages for equal work. In this manner majorities throughout history,
in both authoritarian and democratic societies, have used tolerance to dominate
minorities. In this context, tolerance
is about power, not morality.
The problem with permissive tolerance, as history has often
proven, is that the majority may change its collective mind and have the original
objection to the minority reinstated. In
this way intolerance returns and the minority is again persecuted, with no
rights at all.
Moreover, permissive
tolerance is often used to compel assimilation of the minority into the
majority. While some assimilation is
necessary to encourage a “national identity”, when the majority demands changes
to fundamental values of a minority, it becomes an obvious affront to the
minority seeking to maintain its own views and identity.
The process is a bit different for individuals as opposed to
majorities who claim to be tolerant of others. When one who believes they are
tolerant says: “I was racist in the past but now I am tolerant of minorities
who mind their own business”; or: “homosexual behavior is against the Bible,
but now I tolerate them as long as they are not permitted to marry”; or “I
tolerate women at work as long as they do not bid on the highest paying jobs”,
this is hardly a virtue.
The minorities we attempt to shower with permissive tolerance
want no such thing. It is not enough to
not be persecuted. They want to be respected as fellow human beings. They want to be considered as neighbors,
friends and colleagues who are diverse but treated equally in every respect. This is called respectful tolerance.
I will consider two additional questions raised by the
tolerance debate. First, when is intolerance (refusal to tolerate or
respect opinions contrary to one’s own) the appropriate course to take? After all, notwithstanding our democratic
freedoms and liberties, the majority is rightfully intolerant of incest,
pedophilia, terrorists and anyone who would exercise the “assassins veto” by
killing another individual who disagrees with them. (think Saudi Arabia and
Russia). But where do we draw the line?
When do we come down on the side of individual freedom and when do we seek to
ban unacceptable views and behavior?
This leads directly to the second question. Should we confront those who practice
unacceptable intolerance like racism, homophobia, religious persecution and
attacks on the LGLT community by coaxing them back into tolerance through
rationale discourse or should we attack their views with vigor to show our
displeasure of intolerant behavior? Here lies one of the paradoxes: In order to
preserve tolerance, must we be intolerant toward those who are intolerant?
Since the election of Donald Trump, this question has become
a daily dilemma for many progressive Americans. Some take the position that
Trump supporters must be met with intolerance because they will never
change. Others (myself included) believe
that the key to winning back democratic supporters is to stay tolerant toward
these voters who elected Trump and show respect for their opinions and concerns.
The conceptual framework developed by the esteemed political
philosopher, Rainer Forst, offers a commonsense solution to some of these
questions. He believes that tolerance
and justice are closely correlated. The majority or individual with an objection
to a particular group or behavior must justify
its objection by asking: “are my reasons for objecting sufficient to reject the
group or practice as a law abiding citizen?… The objection cannot be based on
religious or ethical views or some traditional belief that can be generally
justified in a pluralist society.” See: The Power of Tolerance, A Debate (2014)
This approach also works when confronting unacceptable
intolerance. Rejection of an egregious behavior, belief or group must always be
supported by justifiable legal/ethical norms rather than by emotions or unsupported
subjective standards of the majority.
By applying this simple test, it is possible for each of us
to make our own value judgments on whether to reject a behavior or group as
outside the parameters of a modern democratic society, or whether the group or
behavior deserves our respect. The Trump supporter in the Mid-West, concerned
about losing his job and worried that the information age and globalization are
leaving him behind can be shown respect by progressive democrats, not
intolerance.
Under this model it becomes possible for competing interests
to live together in conflict, but with a high degree of understanding. In weighing whether to be tolerant: rejection
or respect become the only two choices.
We eliminate permissive tolerance which has been the cause of so much
unbridled resentment by minorities, trying to make their way in the modern
world.
With permissive tolerance, majorities are resentful because
the minorities who are tolerated do not accept the concessions that are
extended to them and remain angry. Minorities are resentful that society has
failed to offer respect instead of superficial permission for their views. For example, I believe the Democratic Party
was guilty of permissive tolerance in the last Presidential Election, toward
many Mid-Western voters and their views. Presidential candidate Hillary
Clinton’s “deplorable” label on Trump supporters was even worse and bordered on
intolerance toward a large portion of the electorate. When there is no justifiable reason for an
objection toward a minority view or behavior, it is time to demonstrate
respectful tolerance, with no strings attached.
I will finish with an observation that may not be obvious to
all. When one respectfully tolerates
another religion, racial minority, political ideology or the like, this does
not mean that one is adopting that person or belief as one’s own. Conflict between competing interests remains
and the (civilized) debate continues on a level playing field. After all, this healthy conflict is the basis
for our pluralistic democracy.
For those that take the time to understand tolerance, a new
method of understanding “the other” opens up.
It compels each of us, when in the majority, to consider what it is like
to be in the minority, where permissive tolerance feels a lot like no tolerance
at all.
It also works when
confronted with a political debate, where both factions are too concerned with
“being right” and complaining about the intolerance of the other. Searching for objective justifications for
the other’s position encourages respectful tolerance and civility as we seek to
regain a semblance of political order in our fragmented society.